Why is it so important to appreciate oneself?
First of all, it is because our cells work after the
principle of self love. It is the driving force in every
single cell. All negative thoughts about ourselves
reduce the life energy.
Many years ago, I came across a book about how important
it is to accept oneself the way we are. It was really a
door opener for me, I discovered how important it is to
be oneself and not the way other people expected of me,
or what the fashion or the perception in the society say
we ought to be. The door into self love is always self
acceptance about how we look the way we are born.
Being honest with oneself, by stopping and
reflecting opens up your eyes to see others. Admitting
that you do things that does not serve, really make you
grow! The important thing is not to pull yourself down
of what you find, but actively work to change your
attitude - or to use the Keys of Liberation to let go of
old pain and thus negative
It is not selfish, but the opposite. It always has to be
done in humbleness and to achieve non-selfish ways of
To dare to do things that you know are right for you
even if you know that the others expect something else.
– It leads to that we grow into our SELF. Then you
humbly choose to be the way you are without being afraid.
Self Love without being selfish leads to enlightenment.
Then we are humble and
proud to be ourselves, knowing all good values that lead
to a good life, not only for yourself, but for everybody
else also. It is very important to know right from
wrong. Deep inside everybody know this, but it is very
easy to lie to ourselves when we want to achieve somethi
All the wounds in the soul is
what prevents us, so the path there goes like suggested
on these pages.
The more we grow into true, humble self love, the more we are
letting go of negative thoughts about others and allow
them to be where they are on their path. It does NOT
mean that we shall allow bad behavior, offence or abuse.
page I wrote some years back - still valuable