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The life force is the energy available for all. It is present as long as we live. To recognize it, we simply need to agree to that it cannot be measured by equipment or by the ways our traditional sciences research.

We need to realize that the life force is an energy of another kind... Kind of what? you may ask. A good question.
During the last century, a number og invisible forms of energy has occcurred, so that they are useful for us. Radio, TV and mobile phones have become inevitable parts of our world, all representing energy not being able to see or sense. Nobody questions if those subtle energies are real. They work and we soon adapt them in our lives.

 

Well. The life force is a subtle energy that works rather well also!
Why does science question if the life force is real?

Why is it interesting to ask these questions when bringing forth the tool of the free will? It's because the free will is the tool with which we use the life force energy! When it comes to radio and TV sets, we have on and off buttons. When we are dealing with Life, we have the free will.

Life is real. The life force energy is here as a fact, actually even more real than any mobile phone...! When you reflect on life, you can easily find that life force is at our disposal. Take a look at this:

It gives Life to all people whatever culture, religion, nation.

It is absolutely neutral and does not take part in any conflict.

It accepts all our choices. Even if we offend, steal, abuse or kill, we continue to live.

It forgives us every moment. We constantly get blank sheets, new moments and new possibilities.

It simply IS. It has no agenda of its own. It is an energy that allows Life to unfold.

Our experience is: The more we use our free will to love, to be joyful, giving, serving, grateful, to both others and ourselves, the more we get of it.
 

What makes it so difficult to know what to choose? How can I know what is the direction towards ONEness? The answer that often is given to us, is that we need to choose from our hearts. However, what does it mean? It is a challenge, indeed! Because even when we do what we really desire, what we really feel like, we sometimes end up in trouble… So where does the path go for us who want to take choices that lead us in the right direction?
Our patterns keep us from seeing what to choose… coming from the wounds in our soul. They prevent us from trusting and from choosing from our hearts. This is a challenge for all of us.

I chose the wrong direction again and again before I started to understand. It was exactly the lack of insights that made me not see what to choose! It was like biting my own tail…

So, what can we do to make the choices that lead to being content with ourselves and with one another?
The Universal energy is in us all and shows us our path when we learn to observe and interpret what happens to us through the ONE-ness perspective. It is about training our ability to discern… What serves us on our way to create wonderful life and a peaceful and fair world and what doesn’t? We can only train our discernment by practicing it! We have to take the risk to do mistakes - that teaches us what not to choose any more.

We have been taught a lot of things that are inevitable values in the culture in which live. Many of those things do not serve us any more. We have learned to pay consideration to others, not to break agreements, not to break marriages, to be ‘decent’, to… There is a long list of things about how we ought to behave. What we are used to believe, often needs to be revised.

For example, if you ask us if we encourage you to leave your partner, the answer will be; Yes, if it serves your path to ONEness, yes if it prevents you from loving yourself. If we live in a relationship that makes us desert ourself and that constantly makes us do choices of consideration for the partner, we might not do it of love, but of fear of being alone? Or do we do it because we think our partner cannot manage without us? 
So many things have to be taken into consideration and so many people are involved when we do the important choices in life. My heart has taught me this: The important thing is to be true to yourself! Staying in a relationship that does not serve you, does not serve your partner either! Let’s say your partner is jealous. You always take precaution to avoid conflicts so you don’t dare to do what you really want… You do it because you love your partner, you might say, but actually you do them a disservice because they won’t experience those situations that reflect their subconscious patterns. If you let your partner decide over your life, you get energetically imbalanced and cannot see the true picture of yourself… and far from getting to love yourself. If you and your partner decide to find a solution in communion, the picture changes immediately!

What about all the choices we do every day? Take newspapers and TV, for example. Does it serve our way to ONE-ness to follow what happens in the world? Why do we choose to follow the news? Why do we choose to see actions movies? Debate programs?

I more and more chose not to take in any media. The very most of what is presented is characterized by thinking coloured by separation. I discovered it was difficult to look at television without choosing side in things… and I knew my frequency was pulled down. As soon as I opened a newspaper, I saw somebody trying to find guilt. I know that our path goes in the direction of finding the same neutrality and acceptance in us that the life force IS… so I don't want to take side! So even if I don’t want war in the world, it is not necessary for me to be informed about it all the time… that leads us to giving energy to the conflict. I choose to send love to all hearts… like the Universal energy do.
Even movies, I have chosen not to see any more. What makes film and theatre interesting are conflicts between people… some are the good guys and some are the bad guys… Still for a while they play their role in our world, to tell us who we are. When you come to a certain point, I think the drama of Your Life will be the only of importance for you. I have seen the new thoughts coming into many movies already and we believe that during the next years, many new films will be created, showing our way to ONE-ness in different ways. In the future, the arts of film and theatre will have quite another character, simply because we will no more have interest in conflicts! 

Gradually, my ability of listening to my heart increased. Actually, things really started to happen when I started to observe my life and decided to be honest about my feelings. At about the same time I made an important choice: To trust my intuition. My insights have grown along with letting go of pain and thought patterns. Today, I see that many of those actions I thought I made of love, was mixed with fear, guilt, inferiority, pain and the wish of being seen. Many layers of conviction of not being worthy of love and not deserving love, made me do a lot of things that I thought I did from our heart. After having learned how to apply the Keys of Acceptance, the insights of how things fit together came little by little. All the time, I have been guided to love myself, to accept myself the way I am. I can only encourage you to do the same. It has made me accept that everybody else are the way they are on their path and that they are made of love, whatever they think about me.
For some it will take time, for others it will happen more quickly. It depends on your will, on the path you have chosen and which perspective you have planned for your life. The Nature of the the life force IS acceptance, forgiveness every second… it is the One you are, and the One you are going to find."

Love and Joy to all!

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