To detach
ourselves from other people / To bear other people's energy
When we open up for that thoughts and feelings are energy, we realize that we
affect each other greatly. Every thought we think is energy. When we have
expectations about something, our thinking about what will happen creates what
is happening. If we expect something positive, the positive happens, and on the
other hand, when expect something negative, it affect our thoughts in a negative
direction. Therefore, knowledge of the unconscious patterns we carry with us are
important, also in interaction with others. If we have objections, lack
confidence in each other or are concerned, it affects mainly the result if we
want to create something together. By thinking about how we positively can put
things into words, we come far!
There are many types of emotions that create energetic cords
between us that is not to our benefit. That means in reality
that we keep the other person stuck in our perception of
them. Many may find such bonds as positive because it feels
safe to have them. But when we are attached to another human
being by emotions we don't see, it serves neither them nor
us.
It might be the bonds between parent and child (both ways),
between siblings and between spouses / partners. There may
be specific events that make us feel something in relation
to the other person that causes energy bonds between us. It
may also be the way others have treated us or brought us up
that makes us feel and think as we do.
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Guilt, guilt, shame,
bitterness, hatred, anger, a need to blame, anxiety, fear, responsibility,
expectations, longing for, commitment. It may also be to love one another too
much ... because you do not love yourselves. All of these feelings create bonds
when we feel them for other people.
Such bonds between people does not serve any of us..
Our thoughts about others hold them firmly.
The person you work with, do not need to know that you remove the bonds to them,
but all have a higher consciousness, so when you visualize that person sitting
in front of you, their energy is present. It is important that you are honest
with yourself and that you really want to let go. Perhaps you have experienced
something that you need to forgive, maybe you need to ask for forgiveness ...
You can ask your higher consciousness of forgiveness. You may need to forgive
yourself for something that made you feel as you do? Think carefully about
what it is that makes you behave and think so.
Here we use
a simple technique that has proven to be very effective. We envision the
bonds as black cords, which look like fuses, you know, such that fizzle when
ignite them to trigger explosive charges. Imagine that person sitting in
front of you, face to face. Imagine that there are such cords between all
your chakras and the chakras of the person you should detach yourself from.
(Many people actually see them) They go partially into the bodies and are
wrapped around yourself and them. Ignite all the strings in the middle
between you, start at the top! Visualize and feel that they burn up! Listen
to your inner ear how they fizzle! See that they burns up completely in
their bodies ... It might sound strange, but these bands may well be
attached with energy-hooks.
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To return the energy that we carry - and to bring back the
energy that others carry
We carry all the thoughts and feelings with us in the energy
system. When we accept that thoughts and feelings are
experienced almost as a physical "matter" that can block the
life force, it is perhaps not so difficult to imagine that we
can carry to the others’ energy? If you walk down the street
with a person who carry heavy bags, it is natural to offer to
help, right? Our soul's natural state is love and joy. When we,
at an unconscious level see somebody suffer, we want to help! So
at the soul level, we can take energy from each others and carry
on for years. This may have its basis in guilt, in sense of
responsibility, compassion etc. It happens most often between
parents and children (both ways) and will continue until we are
adults. We actively need to realize and give/take it back. When
we begin to work on ourselves and we use the pendulum, it is
appropriate to ask whether we hold the energy for another, or if
there are others that carry energy for us. Feel inside or ask
the pendulum for help to find out what makes you carry energy
and what makes the other s do it. You will sense it rather
quickly.
This is how you make
exchange: Visualize that the other person is sitting in front of
you and call on the person's higher consciousness. Tell the
person that you have become aware that you bear the his/her's
energy and that it does neither them nor serve you. Then take
your hands upward along the aura field and collect them in front
of the heart and give the energy contents to the person as you
say: Here's your energy that I have carried for you. If you have
clarified that they carry energy for you, ask the other person
to delivers it back. Say thank you if it feels right for you.
Use both your heart and mind for this process.
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